While there are exceptions to every rule, you should know that if you believe your husband is cheating there is a better than average chance he is. This is called women intuition and you should listen to it!
The problem is less about knowing and more about how to catch a cheating husband. Your intuition may be screaming at you that he has another woman, but now you have to prove it before you can act. Men may not be really smart in some of the choices they make but when it comes to not getting caught; a cheating husband is a genius.
The Signs
The first thing you want to do is go through the signs of a Cheating Husband very carefully. The thought of your husband with another woman may send you through the roof but if you are going to catch a cheating husband, you have to be smart about things.
Here are a few of the top signs of a cheating husband:
- New Clothes- ( he has worn the same tired jeans for 5 years and now all of a sudden he wants to look dapper?)
- Extreme Routine Change- Your husband has never worked a minute of overtime and now he is going in early and staying late? Girl, he is working on something all right and it is not his paycheck!
- Lack of Love- When your bedroom begins to resemble the frozen tundra, in there is a decided lack of heat, you better believe he is warming his hands over someone’s camp site.
- Distant- Are you finding it difficult to have a conversation with your husband? Does he seem cold and distant? Cheating Husband alert!
- Suspicious- Is your husband now suddenly interested in where you are going, what you are doing and with whom you are doing it? A suspicious mind is often times a guilty mind. Beware of Cheating Husbands that want to make it look like you are the one who strayed.
So what should you do if you think your husband is cheating on you?
Now that you have moved from irritated suspicion to raging confirmation, how do you catch the bum in the act? This is tricky; you are going to have to pull off the acting job of the century to accomplish those ends. You see your Cheating Husband cannot know that you suspect a thing! Even when you are pretty darn sure he just came from seeing her, you are going to have to swallow the pain and anger!
That is a tall order and one of the reasons many women hire professional help, and that is always an option. In fact, if you are not sure, how you will react should you Catch a Cheating Husband in the heat of the moment you need to call someone who will get the evidence and not go to jail in the process!
If you are determined to go it alone here are a few things you can do to get evidence of the affair:
- Check bank records for any unexplained expenditures
- Check phone records and make note of unusual phone numbers, particularly the ones made at odd ball hours
- Use the phone numbers on the internet to find addresses (if these are cell numbers you will have little luck)
- If you can be discreet follow him one evening in a friend’s car, go armed with a camera you will want something to use later should divorce be an option.
